Re: DSM: Simple solution


Adapadoop@aol.com
Tue, 12 Dec 2000 09:23:43 EST


In a message dated 12/11/00 10:58:07 PM Pacific Standard Time,
robertswanson@icehouse.net writes:

> Does SVS offer aloof models or empathetic adult models? Clearly, the big box
> of liturature I got from SVS - what I have read of it - indicates the
> aloofness of adults' relationship to students, except that visitors are
> spoken to as equals. Daily student-created activities are children
> interactng with children with adults rarely included. Exceptions may be
> cooking and the Judicial Committee.

I don't know how you got the impression that interactions between adults and
children are 'aloof', unless you mean 'respectful', somehow. I would describe
relations between adults and kids at a Sudbury school as 'individual' or
'unique': some are touch and giggle and laugh, others are serious talk, and
everything in between and changing over time. Like real life between friends
of varying degrees of closeness - what one would expect when associations are
free.

You can't institutionalize interpersonal relationships without serious damage
to the relationships.

Joseph Moore



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